Granted I jerk off a lot, but in the 25 years I've been married the wife has never caught me jerking off.

She did this morning though. I was going at it hard in front of the computer, and there she was standing behind me. She took one look at my computer screen, one look at my dick in my hand, and said, "What's going on here then? Caught!"

She then left the room, but I'm sitting here mortified (after I finished the job ), and I'm not sure how to face her again. What's more I was wanking over someone we both know, so I'm not sure how she's going to react to that.

I'm massively embarrassed though. For all of my obsessive wanking and perversity I thought it'd be a thrill to be caught, but it isn't . Be careful out there folks.

Unlucky. Interested to hear the outcome. I fantasise about being exposed to my missus as the massive wanker I am.

I am sure she will already know you wank, if she has any sense, but she will probably be embarrassed as you are. She may know about it but may not want to see it.

What were you wanking to? Was it anything which would shock her or make her feel inadequate? If it was gay porn for example, you might have some explaining to do.

Were you wanking using a shared computer? She will likely feel uncomfortable if she thinks you have cum repeatedly where she also has to work.

I'm sure she's aware it goes on, but may have thought it was restricted to bed- or bathroom. My ex was mortified to hear me confess I almost ALWAYS wanked in the living room on our sofa, using magazines which she may have found (but never did)!

Nearly got caught one day when wife forgot something and came back home unexpectedly. Just managed to close down the porn on the computer and had to try and hide the fact that my pants were undone. Not sure if she clicked to what I was up to or not lol.

I'm sure wives know more than we reckon - but pretend not to.

I been caught a few times by my wife. But the last time she came home early I was naked watching gay porn. I didn't hear her come home she walked up behind me as I was stroking watch a guy gettting fucked she tapped me on the shoulder scared the hell out of me said your so gay and walked out.

They do it as much as we do...even more sometimes. Mine just laughs if she catches me. Even if I get the screens changed, if she looks down and sees I'm hard, she will laugh and say "you've been looking at Chinese women again"

I'll hear the buzz of the vibrator going too when she is watching a movie in the bedroom. We both have a healthy attitude and acceptance of it. It's natural, it is completely different than sex, and it feels great. So why deny a natural pleasure? I know not everyone has the same attitude though of course.

Nearly been caught a couple of times. I am always hard in the morning and fully erect and stroke a bit as I come out of the shower so she knows I give my cock attention. However not sure what she would say if she caught me wanking in front of the computer over porn. Would be even worse if she caught me wanking on cam on skype with others.

Similar for me. She knows I do it a lot, but she probably thinks that means once a day. (Its 3+ a day). She would be shocked to see me doing it with a buddy on cam

My wife caught me about 10 times and she was pissed every time. The first time was about 8/9 years ago and she was surprised. She now suspects I JO all the time

UPDATE: Thanks all. The wife turned out to be surprisingly calm about it. She waited until we had gone out and asked why I was being so quiet. I just told her I was mortified being caught like that, because nobody ever has. She simply responded, "Ha, well I have, but don't worry about it. I don't really want to talk about it though. I only wish you'd picked somebody better." (the woman she caught me wanking over is a someone we both know who's become a bit of a slapper since leaving her husband. She's mid-50s and now has a sudden urge to show off as much of her body as possible. She was at an event last night and posted pics on Facebook wearing a red dress too small for her, with her big tits spilling out of it. To be honest, I doubt there aren't many men who know her who don't wank over her. She has that affect).

How things are going to turn out now I don't know, but I do know that I need to start being way more careful.

I thought being caught would have been a turn on too, but no I'm currently mortified .

Wanking to a woman we both know. My own computer so not an issue. No gay porn involved - lucky because I usually watch a vid of some random guy wanking when I'm wanking over some hot milf/celeb.

Well she's certainly aware now