I enjoy this site, have learned alot, Im str8 and really enjoy the diversity of opinion and sexual appetites, but I am not really interested in jerking off on CAM, nothing personal,it doesnt do anything for me, I might at some point seek out an older bud to help me (locally) but for now I fine just reading posts, looking at porn and helping myself, but I understand that many do like to share which is fine. So many times, like the other night some guy PMed me to chat for a bit and then asked if I had a cam, I do but I didn't want to CAM, he ended our conversation in a huff, sorry, I PM-ed him back trying to explain..no response. What are you going to do? Any others experience this?

There are so many different tastes that people have. Some people like to chat, some people like to mic, some like to cam, some like a combination of the above. Just because someone isn't on the same page is no reason to be rude. Just respect their preferences, be polite, and move on. When someone is just trying to get off as quickly as possible, there often isn't a lot of civility, and it is sad. It deprives them of the chance to make a deeper connection, but like I said, many people don't care about that. To each his own.

I have had the same experience when I am reluctant to cam. We need to realise that there is a great diversity represented here. We each have our own interests, preferences and needs so don't get huffed if things don't always go your way.

Don't take it personally. I get PMed all the time about cam-ing and mic-ing but I never engage in either, and as soon as you kindly tell folks that they abruptly cut off and you never hear from them again.

It's kind of rude yes, but I suppose folks are just thinking with their dicks and as such politeness goes out of the window. No excuse of course, but I suppose it's just the sort of thing that just comes with the territory.

very much the same here, I dont cam or phone and often get dumped mid conversation because of it

Same here. I've had mic and CAM experiences but only as a natural progression from chat sessions but to be honest its just not for me.

Best to put everything you want to do and don't want to do on your profile. If they have not read your profile then don't worry about them is my motto.

I've never been into camming either. Some guys are but it's never been my thing. I've done phone more times than I can remember but I think that's something more guys enjoy.

I love to cam. Message me if you want to cam.

Same here. I'll PM, email,...maybe even text with pics,...but I don't cam, mic, or Skype. Old fashioned I guess.

I like camming. I know alot of guys want to have real time meets, but if you are far away, why not. Don't hate me if I like camming lol

My motto is don't worry about them even if it *isn't* in my profile.

I have a thought about guys who run if you don't want to cam. Some guys want to have an open conversation about what turns them on and it's sure easier to masturbate with someone else when you use mic instead of having to drop the goods so you can type the perverted thing you want to convey during the conversation. So mic is the way to go.

However, sometimes the conversation may head in a direction that you both want to go but isn't strictly safe. Once that happens, and it does, there's no way to know if the guy who's jerking furiously on the other end of the mic call is really doing just that. One might start to wonder if he's really into what you are talking about or is he really law enforcement and he's trying to entrap you.

Combining cam and mic is at least visually a way to know what's really happening on the other end of the call. I don't want to see your face, believe me, and really nobody wants to look at me either. But I have a 7" cut cock and guys seems to like looking at it. I also really like seeing another guy masturbate up close, even if it's just on cam. I like talking dirty to him until he cums and, if i'm lucky, he scoops it up and sucks it off his fingers for me.

Anyway, I think there's a safety or comfort factor at play here and that's why guys bolt if you say you don't cam. My suggestion is to give it a try and don't show your face or anything that could identify you, like a work ID badge (duh) to the other person. It's all good then.

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Are you saying people are being arrested for CAMing? Everyone on here is suppose to be 18 or older and if two people agree to expose themselves in the privacy of their own domiciles ..what law is broken? Anyone know of someone who has been arrested?

i always cam and love to do it