So many married/str8 guys would enjoy jacking off together. Or even sucking. The postings on this bulletin board provide more than enough evidence of that. It seems very common. But everybody seems afraid to propose the idea to their friends. Afraid of being "outted" I guess. . . . But everybody else is thinking the same thing and wishing it would happen. How do you make a proposal like that to another married/str8 guy? There must be a way. Can I hear from guys who have done it?

I don't have much experience. I've only hooked up with one guy ever (he was bi, married, about my age), and we only met up for a few sessions.
We started exchanging emails after I replied to his Craigslist ad several years ago. We corresponded for a couple of months, and eventually felt comfortable enough to meet. I would be very interested to hear from guys who have successfully found a regular sex friend. I would love to know if there was ever any guy around me with the same desires as I have, or to be approached by a guy sometime with a proposition. It would be so hot.

it must be easier to just tell a stranger that you'd like to jack him off, or suck him, or make him cum somehow.

Got to be on a site like this first, to make sure the other person is OK with the idea.

I think this ignores the timeless wisdom of "Don't shit where you eat."

agree!