Hey guys. I have been in the whereby rooms recently and wanted to air a little frustration here. Whereby was designed to have a space to chat, cam and share with like minded guys. It seems no matter what room I go into, all the rooms are blank squares. Very few guys respond when you enter and try to start a conversation. I cam and mic and share but when no one else does it is very frustrating. Recently I found the same screennames in each room I went into, meaning they have multiple rooms going at same time. You can only have 4 spots per room unless its a premium room. That means these lurkers use up valuable space from those of us that use it as intended. Also found that guys share "wife pics" and it is so obvious it isn't their wife, just fake off the internet. They want to watch you masturbate to the pics. I do and I don't mind that. It is hot sometimes but you see the same attempt happening. When you confront the lurkers and point out their actions, they get defensive, lash out and harass you. I am just trying to do what is right and call you out on it. Be fair guys. Use only one room at a time. Cam, chat if you don't , be real . You would be surprised how far that gets you.

I agree completely.

What's the best room for showing and comparing authentic wife pics? "Wives" is now locked and when I show in most of the other rooms guys are usually just interested in my cock (or discussing licking my balls while I fuck my wife). Need a couple rooms for sharing pics and chatting.

/bigtits and /cum2mywife are still kinda good

I have tried several rooms over the past few weeks and sometimes they have people in them but they are always silent with blank screens. Occasionally a room will contain a screen with a solitary wanker but they never talk. I want to share pics and videos and wank on mic with some buddies. I'm not into camming myself. I like chatting and moaning on mic, altho I dont mind if others want to stroke on cam as long as they don't mind if I don't. I get the impression that a lot of guys are just lurking in the rooms waiting for someone else to put on a show for them!

This is a list of rooms I have been able to glean. Does anyone know of anyothers?

https://whereby.com/jack
https://whereby.com/wives
https://whereby.com/cum2mywife
https://whereby.com/jobuds
https://whereby.com/jacknchat
https://whereby.com/taboo
https://whereby.com/Seniorstrokers
https://whereby.com/barbie
https://whereby.com/Jobuds
https://whereby.com/Jobuds2
https://whereby.com/openyesopen

/wives is shutdown now

Very interested in hearing from the guys that can relate to this topic. Or am I speaking of you?

I agree. Also I was in a room yesterday just stroking and watching. There was a guy talking and, it appeared to me, showing a video of someone else masturbating. Whether or not that was a video of himself, I don't know. All I know is it was not a live feed of this guy jerking off with me.

Why is that a problem, you might ask? Well if I get on cam and mic to masturbate with a like-minded guy it's reassuring to know he's showing with me. Now I didn't do the "show me a thumbs-up" request to know his video was live or something similar but come on! Should we have to do that every time we cam? Maybe so but it's disappointing.

I prefer Skype because you know at least by username who you're talking with.

Wow. I did not experience that. Yet... I'm sure. There are all kinds. Why can't guys just be real? Be normal. Enjoy our masturbation together.

It is very disappointing to go into a room, and be faced with 3 blank screens. Now, Im not much of a talker, as a rule, but I like to watch and be watched..

Here is my beef with the "beef":

I have stroked and cum on whereby and appear.in MANY times, and as such, I do not consider myself to be a "lurker".

But there are times I'm at home, my wife is in the house, and there's no possible way I can be on cam. At those times I like to scan whereby and watch guys stroke. Considering how many times I've been the guy on cam, I feel no guilt about that.

So there are times when a so-called "lurker" is actually an active contributor but is simply not able to cam at the time.

Deal with it!

Hi, I couldn't agree with you more. I've had countless times where I've gone into one of the rooms and found blank screens. When I attempt to chat.....no responses. I'm there to enjoy a mutual exchange of watching one another masturbate and even better if we mic and fully enjoy the session. Way too many times the screens just sit there idle with absolutely zero response. Why tie up and waste other guy's time if you've no intention of participating?"

I deal with similar circumstances regarding being married and having the wife around. I'll also hop online with my iPad and enjoy seeing who might be in any of the rooms enjoying a nice session. I clearly cannot cam or mic but I at least make the effort of sending a note to the guys sharing themselves.

There must be other ways to see guys wanking, (or not, if all the screens are blank) and contributing nothing, without tying up whereby rooms..

Interesting to hear the responses. Most of which are supportive. Those that aren't, I rest my case. Main point is please only be in one room at a time to allow for those of us that actually use the rooms for its purpose. Idle spaces are just disrespectful.

I love being on cam, I love talking and I prefer forming reliable relationships. So, I prefer Skype forthat reason. I don't mind having one or more people watch me, even if they are not camming back. But silence is dead boring. I have had no luck with appear.in, etc. I moan, I chat very openly...