I mainly use astroglide with a glass of water to dip my fingers into to refresh the lube on my cock.

I use albolene once in awhile, its good, but messier to clean up.

I've seen the praises of coconut oil, but I'll have to say I've not used it, and really not sure what the package looks like, or where or what department to buy it in. Any help there?

KY gel works great