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Sabonis7 Professional Jackinchatter

1584 posts since 2020-04-05
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oldnfat said:
You seem angry, did the Proud Boys hurt your feelings? Was your safe space full? Is it that the really hot girls prefer Proud Boys to soy-boys and snow flakes?...


I notice in your username you say "curious." I wouldn't mention that at your next Proud Boys club meeting, no matter how cute you think they are.
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DarkTraveller Skilled Jackinchatter

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... well, didn't this discussion take an odd turn.
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hob6783 Novice Jackinchatter

74 posts since 2016-02-19
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DarkTraveller said:
... well, didn't this discussion take an odd turn.


It was unfortunately bound to happen. Any push back against toxicity is met with toxicity.

But add me to the list of people who think aggressive/degrading chat about anyone is a huge turnoff.
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emsixxxteen Amateur Jackinchatter

353 posts since 2015-01-23
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allmynaughtydreams said:
First of all, I'm not lecturing anyone or finger-wagging. No need to say "If you don't like it, find another site".

But I was wondering if there are any other guys out there who aren't fans of the "Yeah she's asking for it - needs my cock in her, the slut" school of male aggression that seems so prevalent on here? I'd like to see the Venn diagram of those guys and the ones who are hungry for pics of barely-legal girls in school uniform, too...

TO REITERATE- I'm not calling anyone out here, that's why I'm doing it on a separate thread rather than starting an argument in the middle of a normal one. If that's your thing, fine. It's the internet - it's where we get all our fantasies out, and there are PLENTY of things I say online that I probably wouldn't dare say out loud in the real world! But I just wanted to know... surely I'm not the only guy who's both a feminist and a massive pervert? smile


Fucking finally. This 100%. Whenever I ran Rabbit rooms or in any chat groups or Discord servers, I've always emphasized positivity. Though not all, many of the people who are into that negativity and mean bullshit are because they feel a lack of power somewhere in their lives, and exert it sexually (though probably not in person ever).

Not everyone, of course, but many.

That's why you have people like the Proud Boys, and people who accuse people of being "snowflakes". Mean, stupid people will always project, and that's exactly what that is. They're not content with themselves, and have no idea how to establish healthy self-confidence without attempting to bring the pain they feel on to others.

Anyway, I fucking love you for starting this thread, I'm absolutely with you.

EDIT: Also pumped to see how many people feel exactly the same. You're the real men of the world.
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stevesthename Skilled Jackinchatter

929 posts since 2021-04-07
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allmynaughtydreams said:
First of all, I'm not lecturing anyone or finger-wagging. No need to say "If you don't like it, find another site".

But I was wondering if there are any other guys out there who aren't fans of the "Yeah she's asking for it - needs my cock in her, the slut" school of male aggression that seems so prevalent on here? I'd like to see the Venn diagram of those guys and the ones who are hungry for pics of barely-legal girls in school uniform, too...

TO REITERATE- I'm not calling anyone out here, that's why I'm doing it on a separate thread rather than starting an argument in the middle of a normal one. If that's your thing, fine. It's the internet - it's where we get all our fantasies out, and there are PLENTY of things I say online that I probably wouldn't dare say out loud in the real world! But I just wanted to know... surely I'm not the only guy who's both a feminist and a massive pervert? smile


Absolutely agree. Couldn't really have put it better myself.
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jobuddy10 Skilled Jackinchatter

575 posts since 2012-01-26
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allmynaughtydreams said:
First of all, I'm not lecturing anyone or finger-wagging. No need to say "If you don't like it, find another site".

But I was wondering if there are any other guys out there who aren't fans of the "Yeah she's asking for it - needs my cock in her, the slut" school of male aggression that seems so prevalent on here? I'd like to see the Venn diagram of those guys and the ones who are hungry for pics of barely-legal girls in school uniform, too...

TO REITERATE- I'm not calling anyone out here, that's why I'm doing it on a separate thread rather than starting an argument in the middle of a normal one. If that's your thing, fine. It's the internet - it's where we get all our fantasies out, and there are PLENTY of things I say online that I probably wouldn't dare say out loud in the real world! But I just wanted to know... surely I'm not the only guy who's both a feminist and a massive pervert? smile


Absolutely agree as well... it is a bit of a turnoff for me when I post a pic in the discord chat and someone pm's me an aggressive message like that... sometimes it's subtle (cute slut you posted) but other times it's very overt and totally degrading... I get that we all have our kinks, but I do my best not to "force" mine on anyone... just my 2 cents... good to see there are others like me
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Nice to see I'm not alone with this!
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