I'm confused. So #teenwankin should be considered off limits? 16 NN and 18 Nude. I don't want to get banned or very most important, I don't want or need any trouble.

It is a room that we neither own nor manage, known for users posting underage subjects for masturbation purposes. JackinBot has been programmed for quite some time to boot users from our rooms if they are also in that room.

The problem here is that most of the things you are describing as 'code words' are also just words that have perfectly legitimate uses.

I've already given up on the chat room because almost any attempt at normal conversation gets you kicked like mentioning that you were visiting a family member or typing a word that inadvertently contains a banned word within it.

Where do you draw the line here?

I have used most of those 'code words' at various times without even giving a thought to the meanings that you are drawing from them.

You're welcome. Thanks again for the post. Being new here it's easy to get excited with things like mycircle, whereby, unsee, not knowing really that there's a larger picture. So it's helpful to have a benchmark to go by.

I stick to 28 and up, irl. I just won't do any apps, outside sites, etc, from here on. Much obliged.

It strikes me as discordant that certain messaging sites can't even be mentioned, but you can freely type in the chatroom, "Hi, I'm a pervert, who else is a pervert? Anyone want to chat about how pervy we are?"

And there is at least one active 20+ page thread devoted to this, many of the posts making it clear exactly what is meant.

Maybe just stay out of the thread if it offends you?

So, here's the question: What is a "pervert?"

I'm a nudist. Many in the general public consider nudists "perverts."

Many would consider the very fact that those of us on the boards openly discuss masturbation, share porn, discuss sexual subjects, etc makes us "perverts."

If someone has a legal/TOS-acceptable kink, they might still be considered/consider themselves a "pervert."

It's a pretty vague term.

But, as noted above, if you see someone posting in such terms that's also violating the TOS, please report them. It's just not possible for an all-volunteer mod team to check every single post to the boards.

That QTOX thread looks fucking horrific...

I agree it is far too prolific and makes me worry about who Im chatting with

Got a few dodgy PM replies to posts of mine.Weird Taboo/Incest/Nonce stuff.Reported them.

FYI - we cannot see private messages. Unless we are provided with the content, we cannot fairly act upon it.

Agreed.

[quote=Rod]So, here's the question: What is a "pervert?"...{quote]

If I might respectfully point out, "perv" is on the list of banned words in the chat, suggesting that that determination has already been made.

Ironically, the full version of that term does not appear on the list.