Straight and happily married here. Have absolutely no desire to do anything IRL, but get really turned on stroking with an online bud, more often than not in the MyCircle rooms. Its often very, very hard (pun intended) finding someone on the same wavelength to chat with, as once you get a good conversation going inevitably they start fishing for details, like location etc. No doubt hoping for a meet. I just want to have a bit of online only dirty fun.

So is it just me that's online curious only with no interest or desire to do anything for real.?

Would love to know if it's common or just really niche....

I think it is pretty common

Yeah, it's definitely very common-as a matter of fact, that's how I started. That's how I felt for a VERY long time until I decided that I was curious enough to make the jump to IRL exploration of m2m fun.

I too was curious and nervous, until I realized that we were both there looking for the same thing!

It's not uncommon at all. Because of the stigma, there's a lot of guys that feel they can't let anyone else know. Online is pretty anonymous and safe, so long as you make sure the little woman doesn't catch you with your cock in your hand and one on the screen.

I think many guys are scared to try it for real. Doesn't matter what data you look at. It all shows that a vast majority of guys who have tried stroking and/or sucking with another guy, ended up liking it and would again, so long as no one finds out.

I understand you. I have the same goal, online only but most of people want more and Im not interested. I would love to have an online bud but until now, it was impossible for several reasons.

That's my experience too, lots of chatting, periodically phone bating, only a couple times in person. I'm looking for more j o buddies of all kinds.

In my experience the people I chat with aren't looking for hookups, I'm sure they just wanna know where you are so they know what time zone you're in. Makes it easier to set a time to chat one on one, ya know?

I feel the same way too!!!! Nice to see that there are others out there like me