I've been a BiSexual since I was 12 years old, but in my 20's and 30's and even into my 50's I stayed pretty much with women.But lately I just decided to take care of my desires and sexual needs myself. I went on "CraigsList" and after sorting out the flakes and nutz of which there were many, I found some older me who are equally interested. I am a massage therapist of many years working in the medical massage part of the business, well need less to say nothing happens in my clinic setting. However my private clients, well that's another thing. My massages are quite good ending with a climax, hard cocks and cum on both of us. All I can say is I'm sorry I waited so long to get back into the Bi world of older men. Jump in the water is fine.

Another upstate NY guy who has walked from totally straight to the "wild side" (sometimes). Still married but there is virtually no contact and no intrest no innovation no, you get it... We get along great but there is notheing physical. Now occasionally I get together with one or more buds and we get to get off! Very physically satisfying, no strings some times mutual j/o sometimes b/js. A couple (hasn't really interested me) but they'll fuck we watch and everybody gets off. Best of all worlds. No woman blows as well as another guy. I was a guitar player in several bands in high school and college and had many blow jobs from many women/girls but never one like another guy. They are not afraid! And they know what feels good. My wife was brought up in a very restrictive lifestyle and always felt anything but missionary she did sometimes go for her on top but felt anything else was wrong/dirty even oral me eating her!!!! Bony-M said very well. I don't think I'm gay maybe bi but I can't bring myself to be with another woman (still love pussy) but it seems more like buds just hanging out together, being mutual.
I should change my handle to Rambling Man...

What nice replies from all of you guys! Everything said seems to be where most all are at this time. I have enjoyed this thread immensly and thank you all for taking the time to share your thought. Sort of help "reassure" that our collective thoughts aren't too far out.

Feel like I've read my life story here. I started to become curious in my mid forties after a divorce. Finally got up the nerve to go to a gay bath house and see how I handled it. Well, I handled it just fine and now I'm actively bi and am enjoying sex to its full extent. Even got into panties, kink and all kinds of things. Still in the closet and plan to stay there. The sex has been great and I only play with older guys. So much more uncomplicated. Anyone can contact me any time to chat more about this.

The really odd thing about my story (IMHO, anyway) is that I was borderline homophobic in my youth; something I am very ashamed of now. I reached my sexual peak back during the barbaric times when the media had made homosexuality virtually synonymous with AIDS. The religious zealots were declaring AIDS a "punishment from God" and all that crap. I knew a few homosexual guys and tolerated them; never insulting them or anything, but socializing with them just didn't click with me. Again, I deeply regret how I was then. Thinking of how backward and ignorant I was is now repulsive to me. As with most of you in this thread, I started getting curious in my mid forties. My wife's health began to deteriorate and, though she WANTED to have a sex drive, it pretty much died on her. She was willing to satisfy me on occasion, but I love her very much and I knew she just wasn't into it anymore. Making her have sex with me just didn't feel right. She does give me wonderful back rubs and likes to watch me masturbate sometimes, though. Anyway, the very first time I even let myself consider men sexually was when I was watching on line porn one late night and accidentally clicked on an M2M oral sex vid. I immediately moved to stop the vid, but decided to just check it out for the hell of it. The guys in it were very nice looking with great bodies, of course, and I was shocked to find myself stirring below as I watched them. What really got to me was how they squeezed each other's tan-lined bubble butts as they 69'd. I didn't jerk off that night, but could not get the vid out of my head. Over the next few weeks, I watched several more and began jerking to them. I first declared to myself that I would only like oral with a guy, but gradually realized that anal sex with one would be fun as well since I was into butt plugs. I've subsequently had one male sex buddy with my wife's blessing. Trading head and 69'ing with him created a bond that I will never forget. It took me a while to get my nerve up to try anal with him, but it was great when I finally did. He was transferred out of state and I've not had another bud since. I live in the middle of the bible belt and meeting fellow bi-guys isn't all that easy. I, too, have enjoyed reading this thread. To those of you who haven't actually tried anything yet: Good luck, guys. You won't regret it if and when it does happen.

This is so true in my case. Once the wife lost interest in sex I renewed my desire for cock.. The internet and webcam has beena fantastic outlet for me.More & more I've found sex with men the most thrilling sex of my like. I still like pussy but not nearing as much now.

All of the replies here are so true. I love my wife but once in a while it is so much fun to get off with a dude. I love cock. Not interested in any romantic with a guy but love to have a jo or suck buddy. Only wish I could fins someone again nearby to have some fun. My former jo buddy moved out of town. I would miss not playing with a cock.

Great thread....there is no doubt that in my case, the internet was very instrumental in my discovering a bi interest. I have never had any physical attraction to men in general, but like all of us, I have always loved to masturbate, and have always enjoyed anal play. Prior to getting "on line" a few years ago, I thought I was totally straight, and would never allow myself any non-hetero fantasy. I soon discovered that there is an incredible number of older men like myself, who enjoy the fantasy of sex with other men be it masturbation, sucking or fucking. I am not sure if I will ever cross that line and try it for real, but I must say that I have had some wonderful times via chat, cam and phone with other like-minded older fellows from this site and others...

Wow, hard to imagine so many men in the same situation. For me it took me a long to time to figure out why i was attracted NOT to me but of the sight of a mans penis ejaculating. Only in the last few years did I realize that it was because I was sexually molested ( although not forcibly or brutally) when i was just becoming sexually mature, around 12 or 13 by my older brothers friend. I was walking home late one evening from a friends and there was a field and ajoining alley I had to pass through. He called out to me and motioned me to come into the dark alley.

As did I saw his penis was sticking out of his jeans and he was masturbating in the alley. He made me hold his cock and stroke him until he came. At that time I dont recall having any 'real' thoughts about sex and I know I had never masturbated. Later when I confided to my brother about the incident, he was not surprised and I suspect he and this guy were playing with each other from time to time. After that my brother would sit on the stool and masturbate for me. I remember how amazed and caught up I was in watching his fat, thick cock spew semen and the sound of his grunts as he would say, " It's cumming". Later he and I was masturbate each other well into our middle teens.

Now at past 50, my sex life with my wife has greatly diminished but mainly due to horrific and tragic events in our lives. Its not her fault. And even before those events, I would periodically, go to an adult theater to watch men j/o and play with each other. Now with very little outlet sexually I sometimes endulge my m/m needs although sometimes I do feel guilty about doing so. Anyone who wants to chat can contact me about this.

Simular story but age 14

It's great see so many guys feeling the same way. I've been married for 17 years and have always considered myself very str8. I have a high sex drive, which my wife does not share - so I masturbate a lot. Over the last year or so, my masturbation fantasy has shifted to m2m. I've become infatuated with getting my hands on a nice cock. I've never actually been with another guy - but it something I really want to try if I can find the right person. I've had a lot of chats with guys on here and it the directness that I really like. We both just want to get off - no games, no commitments - just sex. Hope the fantasy comes true...

My wife is going out of town this coming weekend, so I will have lots of time and privacy to chat, etc. If you are older, married, curious and otherwise horny, send me a note and maybe we can have some online fun!

"...it the directness that I really like. We both just want to get off - no games, no commitments - just sex..."

This is what I enjoy about it too. So easy to talk about what we all enjoy so much. Not complicated - chat about most anything while masturbating. It's all about enjoying our cocks at the same time. Same pleasurable sensations, same enjoyment, then both having a great orgasm and ejaculating.

After reading through the various replies I must say ditto to the general feeling among the majority. After many years of mariage there seems to be a lull in things expecially the sex front. Like all I have been thinking of other males and perhaps there may be something there. Hopefully this is the case and even more hopefully something may happen that will suddenly appear before me and there will be release. I do hope this will happen. Hope to hear from some of you. Just a short additional note with a few comments. I do wish to embark of a new venture and hopefuly I can expect some assistance from those who have made this step. I have oot hear from anybody and hopefully there will be some comments and assistance. Perhaps I need to drop my trousers in a public place to attract attenetion. Do you think that some gal would do the same to have some attention.

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I really enjoy reading all the posts on this thread...it is amazing to me that this is such a common thing with older males.

My wife will be out of town tomorrow [Saturday] through Monday, and I will have time and opportunity to chat, cam, etc. with other older, married and curious guys...send me a note if you are interested.