I would venture to say that perhaps half the older guys here would jerk off or suck another guy if the situation were right.

I wholeheartedly agree!

I like women and most of the time I lean toward MF sex. Like you I am facinated by the differences in cock size and shape, love to play with them and enjoy sucking them and being sucked. Over time I've cum to enjoy 69 and and having a guy hump my ass and cum on it. I still stay away from anal and don't like kissing. I prefer women but my bisexuality gives me a nice option.

definitely on the same page. no attraction other playing with a guys dick.

I feel the same! I love touching another dudes cock! Like watching there cock pulse when they cum, but I am not interested in having a relationship or cuddle with them You're not alone

I think of it as like you know when there are dogs showing aggression or actually even people showing aggression it triggers another dog's aggressive response just from seeing and hearing it... so my arousal response is slightly triggered from seeing another aroused male. I think there's some primal competitive reproductive thing going on in the subconscious.
At any rate I just don't even remotely feel like cuddling, kissing, going antiquing with another dude. I'm just not wired for it I guess.
Thinking about mutual arousal I remember when I first started getting into pornography the pictorials with just a female or even 2 females were although awesome not as exciting to me as the the ones with male involved.
I think what gets confusing for people is that sexuality isn't really binary, nor is it even on a linear scale. Plus it probably changes measurably depending on hormone levels, diet and current psychological state of mind.
It's fascinating stuff though and I think people are going to be wondering about it till there aren't people anymore.
I've never played with another dick myself but I really like playing with my own and not just because it feels good to my dick.

I totally agree with you! Would like to play but no interest in anal or romance.

I had jacking buddies throughout high school and college. Both solo and mutual.
Roomed with a guy for 2 years when I was 30...both of us going through divorces. We watched porn together a few nights a week and went off to our rooms to finish off by ourselves...at least I know I did.
One night we were watching a porn and my dick was ready and I couldn't stop so I opened my robe and shot a huge load up onto my chest.
As soon as I was done, he opened his robe and did the same.
From then on, the most we wore when we watched porn together was a T-shirt(most often we were nude) and we always shot our loads in front if each other.
Eventually this led to us jacking each other then to sucking each other (was the first time for both of us).
We sometimes slept and showered together but never did any hugging, kissing or anal.
The closest thing to any affection would be playing with each others nipples... not sucking them...and frotting in the missionary position... many times with me holding his legs up which exposed his hole but I never put it in nor did he in me.
I have had many jack and suck buds since... but never kissed or done any anal play with any of them.

We are interested in men because our sexual drive has turned inward. Being gay is something else entirely.

Excellent insight.

over time, I've thought that finding someone who is either married, or curious, would be the safest and hottest way for me to go. I'm into guys, but respect guys who are into girls and would only be interested in safe and low-key type sexual activities. It would be hot for me to stroke a guy off for the first time by another guy, or give him a bj, let him explore as he wants to. I wouldn't even need to take my clothes off at all if he didn't want to see me naked. Wish there were more guys in my area like that!

I am interested in men strictly from the aspect of giving and receiving sexual pleasure. Not interested in anything but sexual contact, i.e. no kissing or hugging except during the various sex acts such as 69, sucking or being sucked, or anal, both giving and receiving. There's something liberating about being naked and surrendering your body to another man who is naked and eager to indulge in all manner of sexual pleasure. The ultimate joy is receiving his seed in one of my receptacles, hearing the moans and grunts of orgasm and feeling the quivering body go through the throes of sexual release. The penis and anus are the centers of my pleasure.

I agree completely. I'm 51 and married for 25 years. My first sexual experiences were with a couple of guy friends in middle and high school. I think about sucking cock when I masturbate and actually have dildoes that I use to simulate the act. Even though I'm straight and not attracted to men at all (in fact, I really get turned on by curvy women and their beautiful round asses) I get rock hard when thinking about cock. The porn I like to watch is usually DPs or TPs; the more cock on-screen the better.

I badly want to watch porn and JO with another man. I travel a lot in KS, NE, CO and always bring a couple of DVDs for the hotel room. I would love to watch porn and talk about what we're seeing while jerking off. I would also like to talk with another guy about my fun sexual experiences with my school friends.

Use to be in that boat- but a few years ago in college- I was an athlete and got massages at local spa/gym

A guy gace me a massage and touched balls and asshole and when he turned me over I was rock hard and after the next torturouse 30 minutes of massage he grabbed my cock---- I reached for his and I was bi- curious NO MORE

You're absolutely not alone. As you can see there are many men who have urges for cock from time to time with no interest in anything beyond getting off. It's absolutely ok and dare I say enjoyable