Now I'm well aware that communication with my wife is mighty critical to our relationship. we're "newly weds", both of us in our 40's. I am horny a lot, and when she gets the notion she REALLY adores my package. and I mean absolutely loves me there. but it is so bloomin' rare that I desperately WANT to JO. I honestly have JO'd only ONE TIME in the last two years since she and I have been together.

the reason I don't JO is because I know how I was before she and I got together. I mean, it was as if I couldn't get enough of myself. I would do everything and anything with myself, and experiment with whatever I could think of that would help me find even more thrill. not bad stuff, I mean discovering the joys of a simple banana kind of thing. But I don't want to fall back into a near obsession with looking for opportunities to JO. it gets bad that way. and I recently completely removed any porn related material from my life. and what a wonderfully clean way of living it is without.

one nice thing about our love makin' being so rare is my twins are mighty full when it the time comes around to unload. I'm talkin' a LOT of the good tasty stuff. I love goin' down on her after I fill her up. because I have always known how delicious I am.

I know I need to talk with her about my need for more pleasure, since I can't get her to want to please me anywhere NEAR what my needs require.

I am looking to all of you for some guidance in an ongoing discussion to help me through my dilemma of Jackin' or not Jackin'.

on another note, she is sick a LOT, it seems most of her life is spent taking medication in the all-too-often unsuccessful attempt to be healthy. so that really dampens the lovin makin' too. in a big way.

anyway, please ask me any questions here, without hesitation as they WILL be answered as soon as I see them. no doubt other fellas are in a similar sort of deal.

Thank you for readin' my words.
- C

Yes to both, masturbating in front of men, women and couples, online via cam and real time. The first time I fucked in front of others was in college when 4 couples when skinny dipping. after we swam we all started making out on the beach. Once coupld started fucking it was a full moon and we could see them it didn't take long before we were also fucking our partners.

I've also been with two women and loved fucking one as I kissed the other and hand her fondle my balls. Came so hard. I also enjoy watching two women have sex as I masturbate.

My wife is going through the menopause, and she gets frustrated with her hormones playing havoc with her libido after loving sex for so many years. After a cuddle she knows I'm hard and want to cum so she encourages me to masturbate...however, she likes to finish me off! I don't complain!

i love masturbating in front of my wife - sometimes she enjoys it, other times she ignores me. our sex life is very boring and very infrequent. i am afraid i masturbate way more than i should, but the the less sex we have, the more i masturbate, the more i like masturbating. married 25 years plus.

I have masturbated in front of my wife hundreds of times. And once when I was single, I got a blowjob from a girl while my buddy watched .
Ronnie

Of course you are nowhere as old as me and my wife, but as we get older the norm seems to be that the guys turn more and more to masturbation as the women seem to want sex less and less.
I have a great relationship with my wife, but she doesn't want sex as often as before. She still likes me to make her cum, and often I will get her through and since she is worn out, I have told her I would like to jack off to cum. That is fine with her. (the secret is to learn how to give her a good hard cum. ha ha)
She also jacks me, even times when she isn't in the mood.
BUt there are still times I want to just do myself. I haven't talked to her about it, but just look for the time I can have some private fun.
My wife knows I jack off without her. I just don't do it in front of her unless we are having sex together. LIke, I don't sit in the living room and jack while we watch TV or something, (although I would love to do that)
And it's nothing we talk about, she just knows. and I know because she has found my cum rags.
So far, whenever she wants it I am there for her, and I always have my hand when I have time alone.

Hope that helps

yes...many times. The most amazing concerned my best friend. We had jo'd together for five years, regularly, through a few different girlfriends--he would not quit jacking with me just because of a girl. He finally hooked up with a girl whom he told about us from the start.

She wanted to watch, and the next time we got together she was there too, naked and masturbating while she watched us jack each other. She totally got off on it, and he married her.

Besides my wife, with a JO bud.

YES to both. I love jacking off in front of people but have only had a few experiences where I fucked in front of others. Once, my girl friend and I were fucking in a field and didn't realize that four couples had walked up behind us and had watched the whole thing. When I rose up to shoot over her tits they applauded and shouted appreciation. My GF freaked out and it was the last time we fucked outside. I had my fist experience being caught jacking off by a woman when I was 13.It was fantastic and I haven't stopped. I jacked off first in front of another guy when I was 14. The other guy was 16 and he jacked off first then I did. It was great. Now, most of my experiences are on cam. I prefer jerking off real time with and for others, but its difficult. I enjoy talking about this topic and would love to share more with men and women. My Yahoo ID is hardmanepr.

Yes, often to both. The other night a neighbor and his wife came over. The wine was flowing pretty good and soon he and I were j/o each other. The women watched and it wasn't long before they were doing 69. He and I watched for a time then laid beside them and had our own 69 session.

Many times when I was a teen, a friend and I used to JO together sometimes we would do our selves, sometimes each other. Later in life, my gf asked me to masturbate for her. I felt a little awkward at first until she started stroking my thighs up to my balls. pretty soon i felt that familiar feeling in my groin ans had a powerful orgasm, spurting all over my stomach. she was quite excited by the spectacle and brought herself off. It became a regular part of our love making. The only time I fucked in front of people was in a large shared sleeping area at a college country retreat. A number of couples, including my gf and myself were fucking noisily in our sleeping bags.

With lots of men not many women, used to wife alot but rarely now. We would fantasize about all sorts of stuff, loot of it would get us arrested if was for real that's what made it exciting.

Too many times to count

With my wife many times.

I use to masturbate infront of my friend and his older cousin often when I was fairly young. I would also service each of them while the other watched waiting for his turn. I now like to mastrubate infront of my wife. She likes watching me do it. I have a very small penis. She doesn't mind masturbating infront of me either. She's got some big toys she enjoys.