Why is it that bisexuality in females is encouraged & bisexuality in males is discouraged.

For starters, I'm Single bi-curious and I do a fair bit of c2c. More often then not i will talk to an older married guy who freely admits that he prefers males to females and she has no idea on what he gets up too.

I for one believes that its none of my business on how others run their relationships but on the other hand if i get married she needs to be open to certain ideas/truths.

I also have a friend who for arguments sake is majorly denying his homosexuality. I'm not judging him on this but I have said to him he needs to do something to find some sort of acceptance with in his self. (if that's perceived as judging than im apologizing).

The reason he is in denial he believes is his job and his life will be ruined if he "outs himself".

Maybe that was off topic but i feel that example needed to be said.

I am Bi and like it that way i fuck both guys and girls suck and get sucked eat pussy also i am married but my wife don't do any of it and she don't know about me but i wish she was bi

Well, I think we've all got both sides in us. We just need to liberate ourselves and not be hung-up about it....
It's all cool!!

I don't get it either. But I do know that peoples tolerence of it depends on their mood. I'm querky about who I tell and for the most part only tell if brought up. For the most part it works well but the people I associate with aren't the "hating" or intolerant types either. My wife was very interested in my tales of when I was a teen but would have nothing of it if I ever delved into my adult life and there that stands. As far as guy friends, if they do bring it up my usual response is a mischievous smile and a "Are you sure you want to know?" I make them dig for details. Makes for interesting situations or that "one that got away" fantasy later.

I think people and the church should stay the hell out of everyone's bedroom. If a woman wants to have sex with another woman then fine. If a man wants to have sex with another man then fine. If either wants to have sex with both men and women then fine. The age of sexual repression should be over and people should be allowed to sleep with whichever gender they choose.

I think the reason is people just like to watch girls make out. In the glory days of porn you there was always one scene if not more you were guarenteed to get in any porn movie. The lesbian scene. All guys wanted to see and jack too it, if it wasn't the most popular it wouldn't have kept showing up. Even women liked to watch. Even though my wife is straight she always got hot watching two girls(damn if only she would do other girls herself).

y does he have to out himself

My gf doesn't like the fact I'm better at sucking cock than she is.

No offense becuase I'm not trying to start an argument, but you should say that you're a 53 year old bisexual male from Brisbane rather than a 53 year old heterosexual male. I don't know of any heterosexual males that admit to being better at sucking a cock than their girlfriends.

Agree and the same situation. Can't say we have watched much porn together - something to turn on when staying at a hotel... (we just start having sex and tune it out) but I have kept an eye open for any girl-girl scenes... which my wife will also pay more attention to. She admits to having some curiousity about it but I can't imagine anything ever happening. Girls know that the girl-girl stuff is a turn-on for most guys. Never see an guy-guy stuff and I'm not about to turn on a gay movie with my wife.

I'm just horny. I love women....everything about them.

But I am only into cock for the sex, not intimacy. Just want to experience the taboo of it all.