Aizbasa said:
- I lay in bed to masturbate on my back with the computer on the bed beside me. There is no way i could cam chat like that while showing "the goods". I've done it rarely without having access to see the computer screen and it isn't that exciting then so why bother.

- Most guys don't excite me. They are interested in only getting to play out their fantasy and their kinks, you are a prop to provide a live pussy show. I don't get pleasure with that.

- They get too demanding. If i offer to flash a guy on cam or whatever, it is constant requests to go further and if i don't they either throw a tantrum or constantly interject it into whatever conversation we may be having. Saying things such as "i wish i could see you on cam", "are you going to be on cam any time soon?". They think that because you talk to them about sex and masturbating and porn etc that it is somehow a right for them to then see you on cam so you can "finish the job you started".

- There are A LOT of "girls" out there who are actually guys and try and get females to engage in cyber bi/lesbian play. Like, really dude?

- I make my own videos and upload them to free sites. They are mostly kink/fetish videos and if guys are into that then i will show them the videos and pictures.

- I spent plentyyyyy of time on yahoo chat rooms for well over a decade and saw an extraordinary amount of masturbation and also let people see me. I would go into rooms with an open cam and masturbate and then leave without talking to anyone. I was willing to share but not willing to put up with the directions and requests. After all those years it loses it's appeal as something really exciting.

- Having a mutual masturbation session over IM without the constant requests for camming is so much more pleasurable. More pleasurable to share our fantasies and experiences and watch porn together while getting off. At least it is for me.