abundant supply of paper towels or kleenex is the key! I usually just unzip

Persevere, man! I PMd you, PM if you like.....

Do take care of urself, primalman.... your story reminds me of an army bud of mine - he was German, but in US army. Wanted to "look American," so had himself cut (at 28!) -- Dr told him be sure not to get a boner for 2 weeks.... good luck for him and and Mother Nature!

Aah, so many guys sitting at the computer,working it all out -- universal image nowadays! Me too, also sometimes in bed right before sleep, use that day's undershorts to catch the load...

Damn, great video! If that had been me, I wouldn't have lasted 20 sec. Just guys getting off for getting off's sake!

I usually go dry, but for lube I like Cornhuskers Lotion. It's water based, smells good, and easy cleanup. Needs replenishing once in a while. Available in skin care sections of most stores, but not a big seller. [ ]

Local YMCA, good situation. Range of people from high school to definitely grownup. At a given time, it's usually regulars who are totally used to each other. Open 6-head shower, nice sauna, no steamroom. Wear what u want in sauna, swimsuit, towel, nothing, nobody cares, and very comfortable. No obvious sex, but I spose people make contacts for elsewhere.

videos, well-made amateur with no bad music or phony plot...

check cam4.com , it's free, no registraton required.

Probably they're looking for certain type -- ague, body type, etc. Hey, everybody has his own taste, don't feel rejected!

Odd-sounding name, but I like Cornhuskers' Lotion - feels good, smells good, and since it's water-soluble, easy cleanup. Glycerin and Rose Water. Available in skin care section of most larger stores, tho not a big seller.

Army buddy of mine was German, wanted to "look American", so he had it done in his mid-20's....Dr. told him to be sure not to get an erection for 2 weeks....good luck!

know what you mean about private time to yourself. Haven't had gf problems, but I remember in army basic training, there was ZERO time. But they kept us so busy, we hardly had time to think about it. Solo in bunk at night was about only chance. Had a fine time on my first leave, though!

I suppose main thing is leave the door open a bit. It's legal here to have 2 ppl in a booth, but booth is supposed to be locked. I don't think many pay attention to that. The place where I go here is pretty grungy, don't go often. But it seems like best times are right after work or luncn hour, guys at those times tend to just want a quick getoff, and not hookup. Found I have to watch out for cum on the chairs and floors, tho....