South coast is probably where the majority of them are, so you're in luck. Studland is probably the most famous/popular (and it has an official naturist section). I have also heard good things about Slapton Sands.

Part-timer here. Big fan of clothing-optional beaches & European saunas/spas (where you'll typically get kicked out if you dare wear swimwear).

More often than not I don't. Although this can be explained by...

1. Its often done as an 'entree'/foreplay rather than meaning to take you all the way.

2. A lot of women lack the patience/technique to take you all the way from a cold start (same applies to some extent with hand jobs).

3. If its done at the end of sex rather than the start, sometimes you'll lose patience yourself or a finish by hand is desirable if you/they enjoy facials/body shots (or they just don't enjoy unloading directly into their mouth/throat).

All that said, when it has been a means to an end on its own and i've had a partner who knows their craft then when I do cum its pretty much always a substantial load.

When you don't want to stop, stop. Keep it interested, but stop.

Standard razor for sack and shaft. Electric trimmer for the rest. How short I go varies, usually between a grade 8 and a 4. Have been toying with shaving the lot (not gone the whole hog in a good few years) but so far resisted.

In terms of watching but not interacting, seeing a peer jerk off in front of me before I even really knew it was a 'thing'. Whilst I knew touching felt good, I didn't know the full mechanics and so it was quite an eye opener for the first time to witness anyone ejaculate.

In terms of actively participating, mucking around that somehow ended up as a naked 'sword fight' with a friend which we both soon realised the mutual friction/contact felt rather pleasant.

One thing I always found curious having been in shared changing spaces (and bedrooms) is the order people dress/undress in. For example, I always remove my top half first before starting on the bottom half and I have a thing that I have to take my socks off before jeans/trousers (for some unfathomable reason I dislike being naked but for just socks). Whereas I remember people who would take every stitch off the bottom half before removing any top item (and reverse being true of putting their entire top half before even thinking of adding underwear). My other half is another bottom half first person (and always seems to take her jeans, underwear and socks off in one go). Some people I knew would do a bit of top, then a bit of bottom and so on.

So what is everyone else's order/quirks and do you consciously do it that way or is it just the way you've always done it?

Had an instance of an ex riding me and she suddenly yelled and hopped off, and I was wondering what i'd done/had happened. Once she'd stopped hopping around the bedroom it turned out she'd unilaterally (and unwisely) decided to try anal for the first time by realigning herself and obviously bringing her full weight to bear in one go wasn't a gentle introduction. She wasn't in a rush to try it again.